You have to cook a big meal for your keyholder and nothing for you, you only get the scraps she leaves you. Oh, he’s very, very useful. He cleans the entire house, fetches me whatever I want and goes down on me on average 2 hours a day.” Prior to embarking on a male chastity humiliation lifestyle, many women struggle with the silly old habit of being too damn nice. For the last two years her live-in boyfriend Gavin has been wearing a cage over his penis - the male equivalent of a chastity belt - that prevents him even getting an erection without pain, let alone being able to make love to another woman. Whenever he is sitting down (which is a lot for most men) he will be thinking of you how you control him and that’s exactly what you want.

My wife Nina was never very actively dominant but she’s always been pretty selfish and stubborn. Over the years, she has taken total control in the bedroom–we only have sex when she is in the mood, when she brings it up and in the manner she wants–I have no say.

I toy around with him right before bed, I make it seem like he’s actually going to cum, I flash him, I tease him, and then I just go to sleep and leave him aching and extremely sexually frustrated. 69. Chastity Collar There were giggles, gasps and talking between them “Oh my god-it’s steel” and “that thing looks so tiny” and “I can’t believe he agreed to wear that”, among other choice insults.

It’s all part of their dominant/submissive relationship - a dynamic made famous in the novel 50 Shades of Grey, in that case the man, successful business man Christian Grey, was in charge of his girlfriend, college student Anastasia - but in this case, Laura is firmly in charge. Any man who initially desires and then acquiesces to male chastity is admitting to himself and more importantly, to his Keyholder, that he is in some way under-equipped or just ‘not enough’ to play role of legitimate manhood. The rule is you do it at random times of the day, he can only try once a day and he has to be flaccid at the start and have finished completely by the end of the 15-second timer. 64. Big Cum LoadBauer Consumer Media Ltd, Company number 01176085; Bauer Radio Limited, Company number: 1394141; Registered office: Media House, Peterborough Business Park, Lynch Wood, Peterborough PE2 6EA and H Bauer Publishing, Company number: LP003328; Registered office: The Lantern, 75 Hampstead Road, London NW1 2PL Give him a nice long lecture about why he is being punished. Follow this, once you’re done, by asking him to tell you why he messed up to make sure he understands. 28. Multiple Ruined Orgasms Oh and don’t let him wipe off any of the cum on his face too! He must wear another man’s cum on his face proudly. No matter why you choose to force your man to wear a butt plug while in chastity, always remember to use plenty of lube and to start off small. Over time you will be able to increase the size as he gets used to it and his butt hole stretches. Use your tongue to clean every part of your keyholder’s body after a long hard day and don’t stop until they are glistening and squeaky clean.

I make him wear condoms whenever we’re edging ( learn how to edge), teasing, or on his release days and when he cums, he must empty the condom into his own mouth or over his body. 62. Write Out What Your Holes Are For The girls were all laying on the couch, like junkies staring at the ceiling, enjoying the hormones running through their bodies. With some finger motions, Nina had me clear all the glasses and food and head upstairs so the girls could compose themselves. I heard the door close, car doors slam and then engines gunning for their short rides home. Sounds easy? I find this is one of the punishments that break a lot of my caged pigs. 71. Cum Till I Say StopStand in the corner and think about what you’ve done. Keep your cage on if you’re wearing one and stay there until your time is up. 2. What Punishment Do You Think You Deserve One thing that I like about Mexico is that you can go to some really cool adult resorts (i.e. no kids around). Wear ‘Extra Large’ for 1 hour: If you have been really naughty an XL plug is for you. Can you manage it for a whole hour? Your asshole is going to be primed and ready for anything after this. 41. Holding A Coin Okay I guess this isn’t really a public humiliation idea, but it’s still super fun, which is why I decided to put it on the list. Safety: Make sure the cage is safe and openable from the inside if your caged man really needs to get out. 6. Food Scraps