Men In Love

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I'd love to see a collection of fantasies similar to this and My Secret Garden done today with the internet having changed so much in our awareness of the diversity of fantasy life. Another fascinating aspect of fetishistic thinking is the extraordinary amount of detail connected to the object. It is women controlling our own reproduction - not women talking themselves into having more sex in the name of "liberation" - that is where our power against patriarchy lies. The point is we all fantasize about things that are unlikely to happen or will never really pursue in reality but hardly ever talk about and that's why I love this book, if not all of Nancy Friday's books, because you get to hear all those nitty gritty details.

Nancy Friday established herself as a magazine journalist in New York, England, Italy, and France before turning to writing full time and publishing her first book, My Secret Garden, in 1973, which became a bestseller. In creating this historic study, Nancy Friday listened–without disapproval, apology or censorship–to the candid responses of thousands of men aged fourteen through sixty. You can change your choices at any time by visiting Cookie preferences, as described in the Cookie notice. If you happen to do the same just remember your partner is with you and not out there acting out those fantasies.She gave them a legitimate arena where they could share their "secret gardens"—the hidden and forbidden but nonetheless real and true. There's the sexy, the sweet, the heartwarming, the imaginative, the crazy, the kinky, the deranged and the downright illegal in about 500 pages. This is nothing less than an anthology of sexual baggage and my hat is off to the men who wrote in with such honesty and courage.

and forget her, their friendship and feelings of masculinity somehow reinforced at the woman’s expense.It probably says something terrible about me that I find the men's sex fantasies in *Men in Love* much more offensive and about six times more arousing than the women's sex fantasies in *My Secret Garden. Of special note; The author, Nancy Friday, answered a few questions to People magazine in response to Men In Love.