I know it would be really humiliating but I think if I could confess my sins and be punished for them it may help.

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Some countries have outlawed the spanking of children in every setting, including homes, schools, and penal institutions, [4] while others permit it when done by a parent or guardian. It does not teach new skills, creates a culture of fear in children, models inappropriate behaviour, and could possibly lead to an increased risk for emotional struggles later in life. Instead, the children reported remembering messages of fear, anger, and sadness towards their caregiver.I don’t know where the line is for “sparing the rod and spoiling the child” but I, personally, don’t think a kid should get lashes for every offense.

But sometimes, a parent has a strong negative reaction to the facts about the harm spanking causes in children and families. And it isn’t a skill you learn while training to be a licensed marriage family therapist, for instance.In a 2013 study by Elizabeth Gershoff, titled Spanking and Child Development, she reviews the literature that has been done on the effectiveness of spanking on behaviour change in children. Keep reading to learn how to make sure your child learns from the experience and doesn’t become resentful. Once a child is old enough to use reason, you should always reason with them before resort to hitting them. The words that came out of their parent’s mouth, the angry look in their parent’s face, the cruelty of the moment, hurt a thousand times more.

The steps in the "Disciplining Nonviolently" section can help you choose a more effective way to change your child's behavior, such as natural consequences. At the very least, they gain a deeper understanding of their kid’s behaviors and the needs they express, instead of attributing them to inherently negative things. Etsy reserves the right to request that sellers provide additional information, disclose an item's country of origin in a listing, or take other steps to meet compliance obligations. Instead of focusing on learning from their behaviour or coming up with new ways to get their needs met, they will focus on their feelings towards the loss of the beloved item.If you do opt for a bare bottom spanking, do not remove all of the child's clothes to maximize humiliation, try and minimize it by exposing only the child's bottom. Make a commitment not to spank: commit to yourself, your children, your family and your friends that you are not going to spank your child for any reason, even as a last resort or safety measure. Now that you’ve read to the bottom (heh) of this article, odds are you know whether spanking therapy is something you want to explore.