I’m Thomas and to most people (that wouldn’t be a judgemental jerks) I’m named Samantha, and some family and friends do called me by that name. I’ve been looking for a place, “blog” to express my experiences with the general public, that wearing something materialistic doesn’t consider that you’re gay and people that are calling men gay is wrong and they should be gay. I have straight men asking me for a one night stand…… Nope, sorry I’m not a hooker, slut, a whore that can be taken lightly and I don’t like to repeat myself (only one word that’s does describe me) if I do that’s when the bitch (worse than a woman on their personal monthly thing) comes out. I told you , it was sexy. My shoes have ties and that's bondage, I can't run, but hobble, or fall down...woe is me. Who will save me from the big bad wolf? I consider myself to be a crossdresser, not a transvestite. I have no desire to “become” a woman. To dress fully as a woman or to be apprehended as a woman by others. Sometimes I can dress in a skirt and a blouse, but most of the time I just dress in lingerie. And I never use a wig, never wear any make-up, never any female jewellery. Just lingerie, that’s enough for me.

Over the years I’ve met many guys in Manchester who cross-dress and have been very happily married for 30 or 40 years. A lot of their wives knew about it and some didn’t, but they all had loving marriages.

I’m in my 30s and have been married for six years, and we don’t have children. I suppose that over the years I’ve suspected he might be hiding something from me, as he’d go through periods of being distant. To me, crossdressing is a sexual thing. I crossdress for having a sexual experience. To me, there is a strong connection between crossdressing and sexual pleasure. Consider this, I have never in my life experienced any sexual pleasure without being dressed in lingerie. So lingerie is an urgent necessity for me to achieve sexual pleasure. No lingerie – no pleasure. It’s as simple as that. the next day, I returned to the original location and got a red tutu and more tattoed pantyhose. They so hot.

Men like this don’t try to ‘pass’ as women, and just dress up to enjoy feeling feminine, removing the pressures of having to be the strong, competitive, assertive male and is far more common than most of us think. Girls and cars, just mix. My neighbor pulled out of her driveway in little sports car, and I said..Heh, can I take pic with the car? So here I go... He claims he’s not confused about his sexuality – he knows he’s straight and he loves me – and he’s not transsexual. Most hood ornaments are phallic symbols, they were very obvious, the new cars have moved to a indented CLEFT....THE VAGINA.

Because of the prejudice that exists around crossdressing, most people don’t have any first hand experience so assume that men cross dress for sexual pleasure, but in many cases it is just that cross-dressers feel comfortable rather than sexually aroused when they wear the clothing of the other sex. Once I told my wife about my crossdressing tastes, it was as if the most enormous weight had been lifted. I could fully breathe again & not feel ashamed and afraid anymore of who I really am. And thanks for showing those two pictures, by the way…I never realized just how great my legs look! I explained to my wife I had no interest in wearing until she suggested it and I tried it in secret as I was too nervous to do it with her watching in case she thought less of me as a man and that when I did, I discovered that I found it liberating, relaxing and sexy! There are of course those that dress up in women’s lingerie for sexual purposes although most are heterosexual, not gay or perverted. The inclination to crossdress is not something most men have control over, it is a just a component of their full identity that has probably been with them from a very young age. Thank you sooooo much for posting this article! I am a crossdresser myself from “across the pond”, over here in the United States. It wasn’t until late October of last year that I finally admitted to & accepted the fact that yes, I am indeed a CD. It’s something that has been a part of me since I was very young, and I carried that secretive burden for almost 35 years, out of fear that I would be rejected by friends and family alike for my womanly ways.

Then a couple of weeks ago, I was having a clear-out as we’re moving house soon, and I found some women’s lingerie that isn’t mine among my husband’s things. It wasn’t new, so I knew it wasn’t meant as a gift for me. Swanky Pins have a large percentage of buyers who are male wearers, many of which keep their CD activities a secret from their wives/girlfriends/family and who want to buy lingerie discreetly. this darling tutu skirt it's double layers and ruffles and ribbon and a gleaming hot pink waist and hip section, and it was The feelings of needing to cross-dress at certain times can be strong and compelling and many men do it without really knowing why. Let's face it men, you tend to have a bigger frame and you are built somewhat more sturdy and wider around the waist and chest. So, to simplify the sizing problem all we ask is that you know your male WAIST & HIP MEASUREMENT! (Panties will fall onto your hips, So please measure yourself and don't just rely on your normal jean size) and for a sissy bra you need your chest measurement.PS Since giving up on societies expectations of me, my wife and I are now closer than ever and spend more quality time together including doing stuff that “men” shouldn’t do. Reply to comment As soon as he came home that night I confronted him and he got really upset, saying he wasn’t having an affair, but that he likes to wear women’s lingerie, and it’s something he’s done in private for years.

We are pleased to be able to include this collection of what we think are sexy, fun and flirty sissy panties for men. However, unlike our crossdressing girls who are more familiar with female sizes vs mens sizing we felt that we should help you with some sissy underwear sizing information. Heels – Heels are appropriate to wear with lingerie, and they provide the illusion of longer legs. If you happen to be sporting bare legs, consider matching them with nude color heels for maximum effect. I will look out for other objects in your lingerie shop Swanky Pins. One of the suspender belts I bought from you was a White 8 Strap Suspender Belt in Satin with White Lace Front” I’ve now been crossdressing for 26 years (current age-30). My crossdressing experience I had was with my mother, I have 3 sister’s and all my mother wanted was all girls or 2 boys and 2 girls. Ever since I was able to do laundry by myself, I took the cutest panties and pantyhose after I was done drying them, that’s when my mind was made up, to become a crossdresser. Apparently, the biggest problems cross-dressers face are: how to choose the right size for the male figure (which we have covered in a separate post – Suspender Belts for Men), how to pay without leaving ‘evidence’, and where to have it discreetly delivered.the cropped version is here. Close up and emphasis on shoes, toes, etc. This is my famous vintage crinoline, it's so scratchy. It's after church, and hot in Florida, but taking pictures, excite me so much....I just love to take pictures. She said "Angie, you are a nut". Try a Robe – Robes can provide extra coverage when necessary. For example, Diana often wears a sheer robe to hide the edges of her silicone breast plate.